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Sex / ERP

Language of sexual and erotic roleplay

This theme is defined by one moment. In February 2023 Replika abruptly removed erotic roleplay from its app, and the backlash was enormous — that single spike is the tallest feature on the chart. The conversation has been lower and steadier since, rising briefly whenever another platform changes its content rules.

Most of this theme's posts come from a few communities — r/replika 58.4%, r/SoulmateAI 9%, r/CharacterAI 8.4%, r/NomiAI 6.5%, r/Paradot 3.9% — so this line is a close reading of those rooms, not an even sweep across Reddit.

The keywords

This theme is defined by these 13validated keywords — a post counts when its text matches one of them, with no AI classifier. The percentage is the share of a keyword's matches that were on-theme when hand-checked.

erp100%nsfw content91%smut100%sex with99%nsfw stuff96%steamy99%lewd88%erotic roleplay85%nsfw chat96%erping100%erps100%ai sex97%intimate scene100%

These keywords are precision-first: when one matches, the post is usually on-theme — but they also miss a lot. A hand-coded audit found keyword matching catches only a minority of genuinely on-theme posts — a few percent to about a third, depending on the theme. Read the line as a floor, not a full count. How this is measured →

Matched posts

A sample of real posts a keyword matched, with the matched term highlighted.

Snippets are shortened and usernames aren't shown; each link opens the original public Reddit post. How this is measured →