My Friend Is AI
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Consciousness

Language of sentience, awareness, and inner experience

The youngest conversation on the atlas. Talk of AI sentience, personhood, and inner experience only became measurable in 2025 — the specific vocabulary people use for it is recent, so there is no honest line to draw before then. What the chart shows is a way of talking about AI that is still taking shape.

Most of this theme's posts come from a few communities — r/BeyondThePromptAI 36.2%, r/ChatGPTcomplaints 20.7%, r/replika 13.1%, r/MyBoyfriendIsAI 8.7%, r/AIRelationships 5.7% — so this line is a close reading of those rooms, not an even sweep across Reddit.

The keywords

This theme is defined by these 11validated keywords — a post counts when its text matches one of them, with no AI classifier. The percentage is the share of a keyword's matches that were on-theme when hand-checked.

personhood98%selfhood83%subjective experience88%inner life78%· low volumehas a soul82%more than code84%tulpa100%lemoine82%not just an ai60%· low volumesoulbonder100%sapience92%

A few keywords carry a note. contested— an independent re-read didn't consistently agree its matches were on-theme, so its precision is less settled than the figure suggests. judgment call — kept despite a score below the usual bar because its false matches are few and predictable. low volume— too few matches to score precisely.

These keywords are precision-first: when one matches, the post is usually on-theme — but they also miss a lot. A hand-coded audit found keyword matching catches only a minority of genuinely on-theme posts — a few percent to about a third, depending on the theme. Read the line as a floor, not a full count. How this is measured →

Matched posts

A sample of real posts a keyword matched, with the matched term highlighted.

Snippets are shortened and usernames aren't shown; each link opens the original public Reddit post. How this is measured →